Honor. That's it! Peter is not the first one to use this word, but here in First Peter chapter 2, it follows another tough word, "submit". Finding a definition for honor that people will understand is not easy. It probably wasn't that hard in Peters day (~A.D. 60), but it still probably stuck in somebody's craw.
It kind of goes with "respect", which could be another of those four words. However, I am sort of combining honor and respect as one and the same. If you disagree, click on "Contact Me" to the right and let me hear from you. Mind you, this is not a normal blog where you can add your comments, but if you have something to say, it could appear here. You will be respected for your comment, good or bad, "yea" or "nay".
Back to "honor". Having told us in verse 13 to "submit" to the govermental authorities, he doesn't leave us much wiggle room. The thing that I have found here in First Peter, and in Romans doesn't leave us the option to "feel" like letting them rule, or their "deserving" our honor or respect. Even Jesus in John 19 says that Pilate "has authority because it is given from above."[more]
And then don't forget when Jesus said "Render (give) unto Caesar what is Caesar's." It was not prefaced with "If you feel like it" or "If you think he deserves it", it was a simple "do it" kind of like you are supposed to.
What strikes me about Peter are the three words in verse 17 – honor, love and fear. To me, these are the three of the hardest words in the Bible. "Honoring all people" is an exceedingly difficult thing to do, let alone try to do. Maybe this has more to do with humility than we want to give it credit. After all, honor is that characteristic of thinking more of others – putting them ahead.
What do you think? What's it mean to you to "honor all people?" How hard is it to envision that, and then, how hard is it to do? What if you or I don't feel like honoring them. Maybe we make it too difficult by trying to make it fit our reasoning when that is not what we are told to do. If you want to go back to the original greek, there is no being asked – by Jesus, Peter or Paul. They don't beg us to do this, nor do they seem to give us an option. The only option I see and hear is "do."
Now the question is "how/what am I doing?"