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Gone!

Sounds like something else should be there, but then that says it all.

Opened the paper yesterday, and while flipping past the obituary page, a picture popped out at me. The face was unmistakable. A man many of us knew, was gone.

Bill was a manager for the Pinole Radio Shack store. Over the years (can't remember how many) we had talked about his open heart surgery and his foibles with Radio Shack. At one time, they had him managing three stores, simply because he was the best.

What first got my attention about Bill was the smile, always on his face. Then, there was the almost instant knowledge about where something was in the store.[more] You describe it or show him a picture, and he would say something like "over on the second aisle, about halfway down and about your belly button height…"

He chided those young guys and gals who worked in the store about learning what was there and where it was. Many times, I went to Radio Shack and spent more time talking to Bill about life and his health than I did buying whatever it was that had taken me to the store.

After Pastor Dave's "30 Days" series, it draws me up a little short. Not that he died, but Bill's age – only 58. Whenever someone younger than me dies, I start to appreciate the fact that I got another day. But the real question is "what have I done with that day?" Have I touched any lives to the point where it makes any difference, or am I just wasting precious minutes on nothing? Have I given, rather than taken?

Life has more meaning than "fun". We were put here for a purpose – more like a whole bunch of purposes. Major one is that we make a difference by living our lives so that others can see the "Light" in us and want to have some of it for themselves. Our lives should be building up others – making their lives better, rather than tearing down. Bringing joy – not sadness.

Every day is a gift. A gift that is an opportunity to share the one who came in love and gave His life to rescue us all. A gift to share what God has given me, through whatever way He gives me to share it. I'm thankful for today – every minute of it. Sure hope I live it that way!

You Talk Too Much!

Job and his friends are at one another. They think that Job is spilling his guts in his speeches and Job, in effect calls them "Blow Hards."

It is interesting how what is recorded in chapters 15-17 sounds just like what you or I might hear from a friend who has gotten some advice from their friends (definitely not us!).

In these chapters, they start their second round of "advice and counsel", but almost immediately they butt heads. Eliphaz begins by saying Job is a "blow hard". Though those are not the exact words, the implication is in the very direct qwuestion – "does a wise person talk with windy knowledge and get all puffed up?" (my translation) If you don't like it, you read chapter 15, verses 2 and 3.[more]

Some people like the words in verse 6 where Eliphaz says "Your own mouth condemns you," but they forget that that does not help the situation. If you have ever been cornered and questioned by your friends about some of your actions, haven't they said the same thing to you. Why is it that when we are in trouble or have done wrong, our mouths keep running? Sometimes we need to come to a full stop.

What also comes to mind is that saying "Engage brain before starting mouth."

Job jabs back though in chapter 16 when he calls his friends "Sorry comforters." Imagine yourself going to comfort a friend and getting slammed for what you were doing. Perhaps is was because Eliphaz, Bildad and Zophar forgot some rules of a friend who comes to help:
[html]<ol><li>Don't talk just to talk</li><li>Don't give pat answers</li><li>Avoid being accusatory or critical</li><li>Imagine you are the person you are comforting</li><li>Be helpful and encouraging</loi></ol>[/html]
Job gives the counsel to his counselors "I could give strength with my mouth, and the balm of my lips could ease your pain." What role do we play in the pain of our friends and family? Healing or hurt? Building or destruction?

History Repeats Itself

After a lot of years, I got to thinking about Job again. What I remembered about those long ago studies is still true, but there are other things that strike me.

This would make the perfect opera. Don't think that it would work as a stage play or musical. There isn't enough action and mystery for a movie – even if Disney or Spielberg got their hands around it.

I can see the big chorus off to one side to echo what Job and his friends are saying or singing to one another. Once, this was seen as simply Job, three friends and a kid (young man). But, there is so much more. There are moving scenes where his friends accuse him [more]of having done something wrong, and he needs to "fess up."

Then there is Job telling them he hasn't done anything wrong – he's "a good man. Why is this happening to me." His friend Bildad challenges him to stop running off at the mouth and check it out with God.

Job responds with a list of reasons for not arguing with God. Major reasons are "His wisdom is profound, His power is vast." But the cap is when Job says "Who has resisted (argued with) Him and come out unscathed?" If you have the time, read Job chapter 9 and see how Job has recognized the futility of man trying to win a fight with God.

Though Job was challenged to fight with God, his response to his friends is an explanation of Job's recognition of the awesomeness of the very God he worships. Job's response is respect for his God. What would ours be if all we had was destroyed and our bodies in major pain?

The story continues…